Good Morning :-)

Let's start our morning with a positive vibes, let's have a Monday full of happiness and smiles on our faces 

First Day at School

Excited much to see Sam at school, we are having a hard time to find a school for him since we had a lot of options to consider number one is the area if it is safe and accessible, and school that can accommodate us for a monthly basis baka kasi magsawa agad. My first option is to bring him at Kumon, naisip ko he needs more to have a interaction with other kids. Wala naman kasi problem with his alphabets, colors and numbers alam niya na kasi.

When we went to Sm bicutan to meet my in-laws I saw Kidz Domain affordable ang price and accessible samin it's a 15minutes drive lang. Safe kasi nasa mall area. It's a progressive school din. I inquired agad and checked the classroom it's okay and clean. You can choose 3 or 2 sessions per week. You can check here

I took a leave from work to be with him on his first day at school, siyempre stage mom lang ang peg :-) Ibang level pala feeling once you see your child going to school mixed emotions lalo na siguro next year, kasi 5 days a week na school niya.Class will start at 1030, as early as 845am naka ready na si Sam 

Mommy I'm ready

Kulit let's take a picture first, hays hirap hulihin

The teacher advised to be at school 10am para hindi ma culture shock if straight agad sa classroom, he can have a 30 minutes playtime sa play center nila. The Play center is also open for public, toys are nice and branded. So we arrive at 9:56am, we waited for a few minutes para sa opening ng mall.

Finally we are here na, 

Super happy si kulit in his 30minutes play time 

Super enjoy sa slide

 After playtime, isa isa na sila kinuha ng teacher and teacher aide to bring the kids on there respective classrooms. Eto na, si kulit habang nasa classroom nangungulit na lumabas uli so I joined him first. They dance and sing so nung nalilibang na siya unti unti na me escape. Ang ending wala pa 20 minutes the teacher texted me that Sam is crying and looking for me so balik agad ako. I joined him for the whole session.

Basically his first day is into dancing, singing, colors, shapes sorting. Super enjoy si Kulit so nag decide kami ni mama na enroll siya for a one month session. 

 Eto ang look ng classroom ng toddler

 Here is Sam while inside the classroom

With Teacher Ish and his classmate

snack time siya may pinakamarami baon

 Sam is so happy with his two stars ayaw pa wash hands. Eto na peg ni Sam after our whole day gala :-)

 

Wednesday Evening Blues

We had a petty tampuhan ni hubby last Saturday, ang verdict silent treatment. I'm not talking to him since Sunday. Tuesday night, he gave me my favorite chocolate, hmmm yun naman pala need lang masuhulan :-). 

Aminin, sometimes we want na nilalambing tayo, umiikot na kasi life natin sa baby natin.

Last night, I saw this one while cleaning our drawer , hmmm biglang naging active imagination ko.

 I immediately looked for our old phones, complete naman sa drawer. When hubby went home I borrowed his cellphone, baka kasi iba sim nakalagay, I asked him to get me water sa kitchen paglabas I made kalkal his wallet and bag, naghahanap ng sim :-(. My son is asking "why mommy" sabi ko "quiet" siguro naiisip ng anak ko naloloka naman ako. I saw nothing, pagbalik niya I asked him where did he use this sim card, he check it and said "mommy sa wifi kaya natin ito", ay patay hindi nag check ha ha ha tamang hinala lang. Sabi ni hubby "ayan kapapanood ng my husband's lover", ha ha ha oo nga naman ang ganda kasi eh.

But we know we are women we should not ignore our instinct :-) 

Happiness Tuesday

I received a call from one of the school that I inquired for Sam's toddlers school, they already have slot for morning class na yehey :-). Hope Sam can adopt easily for his trial class. It will be a three session per week. One of my option kasi is to enroll him at Kumon, but I want him to have a socialization first para sa readiness niya sa school niya next year. 

Everyday he will say "I want school", but after that he will say "no bad teacher". Na trauma ata sa school assessment niya before. Kaya we are looking for school na bata ang teacher with a pleasing personality. Hope he will like this one.

I am more excited for his trial class, hays time really flies imagine he will go to school na next year and by October he will be three years old.

Hmmmm masundan na nga yang bata na yan para hindi malungkot 

A Toddler's Rules of Possession

Anyone can relate, well my son is like this everything is mine, even his lolo and lola mine daw. If lalapit kami to make lambing with his grand parents ayun nagwawala agad he will immediately run and shout "it's mine, it's my lola". Kalokang bata.

I always teach him how to share, he will share naman yun nga lang most of the time he will share it lang sa like niyang mga tao. But what I like with him he really had respect for elders sa mga lolo and lola. Even hindi niya kilala he will smile with them and bless, he will share his food din. 

Toddlers has his own world talaga,it's a magical place where they can discover things,new learnings, joys and frustrations. They have there own imaginations. As a parent we need to guide him in his every step of new learning's.

Hay's mahirap na masaya when you have a toddler, but the good thing is I also learn from him, and I become a good parent and inspiration for my son :-)

Thoughts of Having a Second Baby

Sam is now 2 years and 9 months old, sumasakit na ears ko sa dami ng lines................ here are some, madami sa actual

  " Sam needs a playmate"- puwede makipaglaro kahit kanino
  " You are not getting younger"- okay lang yun, some get pregnant even on 40's
  " You should have a daughter"- that's my dream to have a little girl, eh pano kung boy uli
  " He should have a brother or a sister"- he can wait :-)
  " Kaya lumalaki matigas ulo ni Sam because wala siya kapatid"- may ganun, hindi ba puwede kaya matigas ulo dahil spoiled kay lolo
 " You should have a baby na habang kaya ko pa mag alaga (mama's line)- kaya mo pa yan mama you are still young 
 " Mahirap isa lang anak, magsisi ka"- 

 But I know I'm not yet ready to have another one, I have to think it first pa talaga,  I have so many things to consider before having another one, 

1. Budget- kaya na ba namin???, CS delivery me my bill before was 65+++K, wala pa monthly check up dyan.And more expenses pag lumabas na.

2. Physical- PCOS me, need to undergo a medication again. I have to be ready again in sleepless nights, more work etc. Having a second baby mothers should be physically fit. Hindi basta basta maging preggy and maging mommy.

3. Emotionally ready- I'm not yet ready, umiikot life ko kay Sam,parang ayoko mawala attention ko sa kanya. Having a second baby, mommies should be emotionally ready baka ang maging ending ay depression.

4. Husband and wife should agree in decision of having another one. It will be easier if you each other support and love. Walang sisihan :-)

5. Sam needs- A new born baby requires a lot of time, love and attention,but I have to think that Sam needs me also. I have to prepare him first, as of now ayaw pa niya ng brother or sister. Siya lang daw baby namin.

In short, ako ang hindi ready :-(, I want to spend more time with Sam, I want to enjoy him first. I'm not a full time mom, feeling ko kulang ang time ko sa kanya. I want him to feel my love. Feeling ko kasi if I will have a baby agad parang ninakaw ko ang time ko na para sa kanya. 

Maybe next year ready na me :-) 
 

Lesson Learned

After the accident, I was totally mentally blackout, I could not really remember what really happened, all I want that time is to protect my son. I'm so afraid, hindi ako makaiyak, I don't want my son to see me crying baka matakot din siya. I have to act normal, but deep inside I'm so nervous, super panic as in everything.

When we got home I asked his Ate Gloria na pakainin siya I know na super hungry na siya, I could not think, I need somebody to talk too, hubby is not around may seminar, I called mama, I could not speak, iyak ako ng iyak, tumawag siya sa house para mas clear ang signal, and then I told her the details. She told me to be calm, at least okay kami mag ina. 

After we talked, diretso me sa room, Sam followed me and he told me "mommy wash hands", and then I washed his hands, he asked for his milk and he said "let's sleep", he hugged and kissed me and he said the sweetest thing "I love you" as in buo yung three words before kasi short cut as in "lab yu" , I feel so loved nawala panic mode ko.  Parang alam niya na stress na ang mommy niya. Kids are really innocent talaga, kaya I'm so thankful nothing serious happen. I learned my lessons. Kaya ngayun we are grounded :-( no more mommy and sam date
 
To my dearest Sam, thank you for loving mommy, your hugs and kisses are enough to lessen my fear. I will do everything to protect you. Hope that you will love me forever :-) 

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Weekend Mixed Emotions

I'm always excited if weekend na, I can sleep till 830am lucky pag hindi nagising si Sam ng 7am, I can clean our room, and most especially I can spend more time with Sam.

Last Saturday we woke up around 830am, because si hubby may work that time, for 30 minutes Sam and I had "cham cham time" which means harutan sa bed. After niya mapagod he asked me to change his diapers, he wants brief daw, we are in a stage na ng potty training. Side kuwento : We don't force him to have a potty training when he is young, siya mismo nagsabi na like niya na brief. Before his diaper a day is 4-6 now 2-3 na lang nakaka save na kami. He can say na if "wiwi" but when it comes to "pupu" he will ask to put a diaper again, hindi pa siya marunong.

After our changing routine we had our breakfast baked macaroni and toasted bread with butter, he can eat by himself also, he is really a big boy na talaga most of the thing he can do it alone na. We decided to have a lunch sa Jollibee, okay na rin kasi I need to do some errands, so excited si kulit, we always have a date namn yung kami dalawa lang, he is behave naman. We had an accident, iyak ako ng iyak after the incident. I'm so afraid what if may nangyari na mas matindi, nasaktan si Sam, I thanked God na wala nasaktan. Kaya simula ngayon we cannot leave the house na kami dalawa lang. 

After the incident, I realized that na kailangan ko pa talaga parents ko,wala ako iba masasabihan, when I called my mom I'm already crying she got panicked also if what happen, akala nila may nangyari kay Sam. But my mom  told me na just relax, wait and pray hindi ka namin pababayaan. How lucky I am to have them even I'm old enough and I should know how to deal with the situation ang ending kay mommy and daddy pa din takbo ko.

Sunday naman its positive vibes, we are not able to go to the church because dad is not feeling well kumain ba namn ng 4 pine apple. I also need to work for my small business. Ngaun kasi ilalagay signage namin.After 3 hours naikabit na din ang new name namin sa establishment

Still need to work out more sa loob ng drugstore, positive vibes we can attract more customers :-)

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