I love being a
mom!!!
This is my
ultimate dream, being a mom is the happiest day of my life. I become a better
person I learn how to forgive and let it go; I learn what the true meaning of
unconditional love is, and what the life of being a mother is.
“MOTHER”,
“MOM”, “MAMA”, “MOMMY”, “NANAY”, “INAY” is a big role not just a word, a role
that we need to fulfill, embrace and love it.
Part of being
a working mom is a lot of sacrifices you
really need to know how to manage your time, learn how to handle your emotions
and most of all you need to show and let your kids feel that they are the most
important person in the world, that no matter what they will be our top
priority.
There are
lots of considerations why some of moms still consider being a working a mom,
it’s not just a career or ambition, the number one fact is the financial
matters. Now a day’s cost of living is expensive come to think of it most of us
our salaries is not enough to sustain our needs. Some of us want to prove
something in ourselves. Whatever the reason is why some of women still choose
to be a working mom, there is a big reason behind it.
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Do you know
the feeling that your “maternity leave” is about to end and you have to face
the reality that you have to work for 9 hours again. It’s so painful especially
in the first two weeks, and I would say I salute OFW mom’s how they were able
to survive the sadness.
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As early as
possible we need to tell our kids why we need to work so they can understand
why we need to leave them for a while. In my experience, as early as 1.5 years
old every time that I will go to the office and my son is crying and begging me
to say I will explain it to him “Mommy needs to work or else we cannot buy your
milk, diapers, clothes, toys and we cannot eat, we cannot pay our bills, you
cannot watch mickey mouse” and he will let me go. Of course I need to admit
that there are times that he will be having a tantrums and he doesn’t want me
to let it go, it’s so heartbreaking seeing your son crying and you really need
to leave. There are times that I can’t help but to cry while driving, but I
need to be strong for the future of my son. Someone will say it’s a drama, but
believe me once you are mom you will feel the same that what we feel right now
as a working mom.
Let me share
some of my thoughts what is life of being a working mom
Working
mom when you are expecting a baby
Working
mom when you gave birth
Working
mom when you are raising an infant
Working
mom when you are raising a toddler
Working
mom when you are raising a preschooler
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I've been working from home since college and until now that I am a mom. There are days when I wonder about how life would be like if I work out of the home because being a WAHM is no easy job. I've actually gone to job interviews then would later on realize that I would really rather work from home. Good luck to your journey as a working mom and a dreaming WAHM!
ReplyDeleteThank you :-) hope that someday I could be a WAHM like you
ReplyDeleteHi Ms. Cielo thanks for the advice! I really need to prepare regarding financial since we have a lot of expenses, hoping that someday I could be a WAHM. Right now I'm starting looking for an online job as part time, I am still on the process, honestly I don't know how to start pa talaga ang alam ko lang I want to be a WAHM to be with my family.
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